Loin Cloth Lenny wrote: ↑Fri Oct 06, 2023 12:22 pm
CEB wrote: ↑Fri Oct 06, 2023 10:01 am
“Are you hoping for thought police to be appointed?”
Again, can you read?
Think what you like. It’s just bizarre that you think that your internal observation that you were socialising with a man who believes he is a woman, and your subsequent recognition that it has no impact on you, is in any way pertinent to the trans debate. Do you understand what is being debated in the “trans debate”?
Now you have asked, no I don’t know.
I want to say live and let live. I treat everyone as I find with equal respect and reverence. I was in the company of new people who knew a good friend of mine recently . On the journey home he said that this huge bald bloke with a beard who had been in our presence all evening was born a female and did I realise.
I said I did not realise and said good luck to her if she is now happy. For all I knew she was a man. I don’t know if she had changed organs and it was none of my business if she was now happy in the right body. It is of no concern to anyone but her.
Thank you for your honesty.
The reason your experiences are not pertinent to the debate is this:
Trans organisations and charities are pushing the idea that the only thing necessary for someone to be seen as having become a member of the opposite sex is a self declared assertion, and that that assertion should suffice. No operations, no hormones necessary.
Humans cant actually change sex, but you’re right; there’s no harm most of the time in people living their lives in a way that corresponds to their own idea of what it is to be a member of the opposite sex.
The issue arises when sex matters.
Here’s what I mean. You meet a male person at a festival, wearing a dress, and correctly recognise that how that male person presents is no harm to you, and so you accept that some men wear dresses, and sometimes believe themselves to be women. That’s not in dispute by anyone aside from the most rabid right wing bigot.
But the issue would be this; let’s say your mother requires intimate care as she gets older. For her safety and dignity, she would like her care to be carried out by a female career, and you presumably would support her in that.
If an organisation assigned a male person who believes himself to be a woman to be an appropriate person to provide intimate care (as has actual;y happened when organisations started designing policies based on Stonewall’s guidelines), would you consider that to be fine, or would you take issue? (and if you think it’s fine, while I disagree, that’s up to you. My aim here is to show you what the clash of rights is - in this case the right of a male person to have his identity validated in all circumstances, Vs the right of a female person to have same sex care)