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Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 10:53 am
by Disoriented
This woman should be banged up.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 11:21 am
by Thor
The police are apparently going to use the 999 call as he says she tried to kill me, and the video evidence of the police where she went mental flipped a table and had to be forecabke held down and arrested. She’s trying to save her skin by pleading not guilty, but as Spen knows the court takes into consideration an early plea of guilt and does not like it when you fail to do so.
Things just got interesting, if she loses her career is over.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 11:24 am
by DuvB
Patently she is a nutter with anger management issues.
Reckon she will get a suspended sentence.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 11:28 am
by spen666
Thor wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 11:21 am
The police are apparently going to use the 999 call as he says she tried to kill me, and the video evidence of the police where she went mental flipped a table and had to be forecabke held down and arrested.
She’s trying to save her skin by pleading not guilty, but as Spen knows the court takes into consideration an early plea of guilt and does not like it when you fail to do so.
Things just got interesting, if she loses her career is over.
It's not exactly like that, but you do get a discount on sentence of up to 1/3 for an early guilty plea.
She will not go to prison is convicted or if she had plead guilty.
The sentence is almost irrelevant to her.. it's a conviction that would do most harm, not the courts punishment
If convicted it is likely to end her media career, or severely harm it. That is her concern. I would gave advised her to plead Not Guilty and hope for an acquittal. A victimless prosecution is not an easy thing to secure a conviction with.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 12:57 pm
by ComeOnYouOs
I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 1:21 pm
by Thor
ComeOnYouOs wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 12:57 pm
I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported
I take it you got rid pretty quickly after that?
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 2:22 pm
by spen666
UpminsterO wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 1:14 pm
Spen - an observation on your behaviour over a long time is not a personal attack - I am sure others who are even remotely interested in you or my view of you - have their own view on you - it's like you emphasise playing the role of the innocent victim of persecution.
If you behave yourself going forward it won't attract any more observations statements
If you don't like my posts use the ignore function instead of ruining threads for everyone with your personal attacks.
It's not too much to ask is it?
I certainly do no need you to tell me what to do.
Its nice to know that you put your personal hatred of me (someone you do not know and haven't met) above a debate on DV and brave people like ComeOnYouOs revealingsuch a personal event in his life
If you feel the need to launch personal attacks, why not start a thread and keep your hate and abuse from derailing other threads.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 2:47 pm
by Fanny
Spenny up to his old tricks
You’d think a grown man would have better things to do than troll on a Leyton Orient message board. On Christmas Eve of all days.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:03 pm
by ComeOnYouOs
Thor wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 1:21 pm
ComeOnYouOs wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 12:57 pm
I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported
I take it you got rid pretty quickly after that?
YES
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:05 pm
by Disoriented
ComeOnYouOs wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:03 pm
Thor wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 1:21 pm
ComeOnYouOs wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 12:57 pm
I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported
I take it you got rid pretty quickly after that?
YES
Sorry to hear that COYOs.
What type of bat was it?
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:13 pm
by ComeOnYouOs
Disoriented wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:05 pm
ComeOnYouOs wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:03 pm
Thor wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 1:21 pm
I take it you got rid pretty quickly after that?
YES
Sorry to hear that COYOs.
What type of bat was it?
A regular cricket bat.nothing special of expensive. As I said it was 22 years ago, and largely forgotten. The thread reminded me of it.
Before anyone else asks , if i hit her back, the answer is no. I cant hit a woman under any circumstances , so she got away with it
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:18 pm
by Disoriented
ComeOnYouOs wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:13 pm
Disoriented wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:05 pm
Sorry to hear that COYOs.
What type of bat was it?
A regular cricket bat.nothing special of expensive. As I said it was 22 years ago, and largely forgotten. The thread reminded me of it.
Before anyone else asks , if i hit her back, the answer is no. I cant hit a woman under any circumstances , so she got away with it
At least you called stumps on the relationship which is fair enough.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:19 pm
by Mick McQuaid
The European convention on Human rights.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 5:11 pm
by spen666
Mick McQuaid wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:19 pm
The European convention on Human rights.
Thanks
You do know the police have no duty to investigate alleged breaches of ECHR, whether article 3 or any other. There is no criminal defence of breach of Article 3 of ECHR.
It's a bit of a red herring in this debate
The ECHR doesn't create criminal offences. You couldn't for example be arrested for a breach of Article 3, but you could be arrested for assault, murder etc
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 5:15 pm
by spen666
UpminsterO wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 4:13 pm
spen666 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 2:22 pm
UpminsterO wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 1:14 pm
Spen - an observation on your behaviour over a long time is not a personal attack - I am sure others who are even remotely interested in you or my view of you - have their own view on you - it's like you emphasise playing the role of the innocent victim of persecution.
If you behave yourself going forward it won't attract any more observations statements
If you don't like my posts use the ignore function instead of ruining threads for everyone with your personal attacks.
It's not too much to ask is it?
I certainly do no need you to tell me what to do.
Its nice to know that you put your personal hatred of me (someone you do not know and haven't met) above a debate on DV and brave people like ComeOnYouOs revealingsuch a personal event in his life
If you feel the need to launch personal attacks, why not start a thread and keep your hate and abuse from derailing other threads.
You - have many words of nothing - a person that posted so many times with deviation to a subject matter to attempt to convey your point - even on this thread another poster had to remind you to keep to the topic.
Maybe if you had concentrated on either law or accountancy rather than attempt both you may of been a more approachable character.
If I recall you had no comment when I pointed out you had been found out posting under two different names from the same computer and how many topics did you contaminate with your perverse weird behaviour
As for this topic I notice I have contributed a reasonable amount (in addition to dealing with you again) before the boarder revealed his ex wife had hit him over the head with the bat
You I would not want to meet assuming I could catch you speeding up the motorway another topic by you
If you are so perfect why don't you post more about lofc - assuming you actually do support lofc
Why not start a thread to post your hatred of me instead of ruining every thread with your anti me posts?
You really are only showing yourself up and destroying thread after thread
I am sure mos peopl would rather discuss DV than read your repeated diatribes that have nothing to do with the thread.
Perhaps the irony of our last sentence is lost on you.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 5:55 pm
by Max B Gold
Mods come on get a grip here.
These two need to go.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 6:01 pm
by Redcard
Comeonyouos, well done for not hitting her back, but I would have f*cking bowled her out.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 6:05 pm
by Fanny
Redcard wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 6:01 pm
Comeonyouos, well done for not hitting her back, but I would have f*cking bowled her out.
Sent her past the boundary?
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 7:13 pm
by Disoriented
Good thing you didn’t bowl a maiden over.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2019 10:23 pm
by Thor
ComeOnYouOs wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 3:03 pm
Thor wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 1:21 pm
ComeOnYouOs wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 12:57 pm
I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported
I take it you got rid pretty quickly after that?
YES
Sorry to hear that and well done for walking away when you did. I hope you’ve found peace and happiness since.
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Wed Dec 25, 2019 12:06 am
by Ronnie Hotdogs
ComeOnYouOs wrote: ↑Tue Dec 24, 2019 12:57 pm
I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported
At least there’s been no long term damage....
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Wed Dec 25, 2019 8:02 am
by Long slender neck
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Wed Dec 25, 2019 1:13 pm
by ComeOnYouOs
Making jokes about domestic violence maybe isn't too clever.
There's an element of sexism here too. Let me explain.
If a woman was attacked and beaten by a man, I don't think anyone would dream of making a joke about it, but if a man is attacked by a woman, somehow"it's not so bad" to make jokes?
I contributed to a thread, about an experience I had many years ago..... Had I thought anyone would deem any aspect of it amusing, I wouldn't have..... And I'm damn sure I won't in future
Re: A Bit of Domestic Violence
Posted: Wed Dec 25, 2019 1:56 pm
by spen666
ComeOnYouOs wrote: ↑Wed Dec 25, 2019 1:13 pm
Making jokes about domestic violence maybe isn't too clever.
There's an element of sexism here too. Let me explain.
If a woman was attacked and beaten by a man, I don't think anyone would dream of making a joke about it, but if a man is attacked by a woman, somehow"it's not so bad" to make jokes?
I contributed to a thread, about an experience I had many years ago..... Had I thought anyone would deem any aspect of it amusing, I wouldn't have..... And I'm damn sure I won't in future
ComeOnYouOs
You were brave to make the post and I salute your courage.
I am sorry that idiots on here choose to be so insulting and insensitive as to joke about your situation.
They do not speak for the majority of us
