Re: Abortion at 34 weeks case...
Posted: Wed Jun 14, 2023 10:42 am
Don’t disagree with that at all - yep, I was focusing on external and psychological factors, I overlooked that one
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Funny how things can be worded isnt it?During Foster’s trial, the court heard that she had been having sex with two men and did not know which was the father when she became pregnant.
Long slender neck wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 12:17 pm Doesnt change my view either way, just think its funny the way things are portrayed depending which side of the fence you're on.
Be interesting to know if her children moved back in with her, or if they had stayed with their Father. A Disabled Child is a heavy burden to bare .Long slender neck wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 12:17 pm Doesnt change my view either way, just think its funny the way things are portrayed depending which side of the fence you're on.
Your 'process' isnt reality though is it? I dont think there's much wrong with the law as it stands.CEB wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 12:24 pmLong slender neck wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 12:17 pm Doesnt change my view either way, just think its funny the way things are portrayed depending which side of the fence you're on.
But what specifically is funny or interesting about it? The accounts I’ve referred to, and the way I’ve spoken myself are not in denial of the fact that the women we discuss when discussing late term abortion are very likely to be women whose lives are unstable, chaotic and easy to frame negatively. In fact, it’s pretty self evident (again, read some of the accounts of the women we’re discussing)
The only reason to frame an incident such as this through a Jeremy Kyle-esque lens is if you have an outcome you’d like to see that differs from the process I mention above as what I think would work. Do you have a different process you’d like to kick in when the context can be framed as “woman sleeps around”?
What do you mean “my process isn’t reality”? I’m literally arguing, as many people are, that the current law criminalises vulnerable women unduly. And that that’s what is wrong with the law as it stands.Long slender neck wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 12:30 pmYour 'process' isnt reality though is it? I dont think there's much wrong with the law as it stands.CEB wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 12:24 pmLong slender neck wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 12:17 pm Doesnt change my view either way, just think its funny the way things are portrayed depending which side of the fence you're on.
But what specifically is funny or interesting about it? The accounts I’ve referred to, and the way I’ve spoken myself are not in denial of the fact that the women we discuss when discussing late term abortion are very likely to be women whose lives are unstable, chaotic and easy to frame negatively. In fact, it’s pretty self evident (again, read some of the accounts of the women we’re discussing)
The only reason to frame an incident such as this through a Jeremy Kyle-esque lens is if you have an outcome you’d like to see that differs from the process I mention above as what I think would work. Do you have a different process you’d like to kick in when the context can be framed as “woman sleeps around”?
I'm not in favour of late stage abortions because the mother is having a 'crisis', particularly a crisis of their own making.
Could you clarify what this is?the process I mention above as what I think would work.
At the risk of being accused of brown-nosing Keef, I'm not sure there needed to be any further discussion after the point above. And imprisonment is just the crowning turd on top of the whole case.CEB wrote: ↑Tue Jun 13, 2023 6:11 pm This particular case seems awful, with a woman in a scary, highly stressful situation during an unprecedented time of stress for everyone in the world.
What sticks out to me is that she wasn’t getting support that she desperately needed, and wasn’t in a situation where there was a “good” option. And even the “lying” afterwards is the result of there being no safe way to disclose what happened.
The whole “would you feel different in X situation?” is barking up the wrong tree.
What cases like this illustrate is not the need to have clarity over when it’s OK to have an abortion, but the need for vulnerable women to have access to support - mental health support, shelter, counselling, financial assistance, escape from violent/coercive control etc.
If we actually accept that abortion at all stages should not be a criminal offence, then we enable women considering abortion to seek support, knowing that doing so will not put them on the radar as having committed a crime if the support turns out to not be enough.
Decriminalisation of abortion at all stages does not = support of late stage abortion. It just means that we recognise that archaic laws are not fit for purpose when they have this outcome.
I make you right other than to say his debating style could be less aggressive.Admin wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 1:41 pmAt the risk of being accused of brown-nosing Keef, I'm not sure there needed to be any further discussion after the point above. And imprisonment is just the crowning turd on top of the whole case.CEB wrote: ↑Tue Jun 13, 2023 6:11 pm This particular case seems awful, with a woman in a scary, highly stressful situation during an unprecedented time of stress for everyone in the world.
What sticks out to me is that she wasn’t getting support that she desperately needed, and wasn’t in a situation where there was a “good” option. And even the “lying” afterwards is the result of there being no safe way to disclose what happened.
The whole “would you feel different in X situation?” is barking up the wrong tree.
What cases like this illustrate is not the need to have clarity over when it’s OK to have an abortion, but the need for vulnerable women to have access to support - mental health support, shelter, counselling, financial assistance, escape from violent/coercive control etc.
If we actually accept that abortion at all stages should not be a criminal offence, then we enable women considering abortion to seek support, knowing that doing so will not put them on the radar as having committed a crime if the support turns out to not be enough.
Decriminalisation of abortion at all stages does not = support of late stage abortion. It just means that we recognise that archaic laws are not fit for purpose when they have this outcome.
The important bit.Admin wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 1:41 pmAt the risk of being accused of brown-nosing Keef, I'm not sure there needed to be any further discussion after the point above. And imprisonment is just the crowning turd on top of the whole case.CEB wrote: ↑Tue Jun 13, 2023 6:11 pm This particular case seems awful, with a woman in a scary, highly stressful situation during an unprecedented time of stress for everyone in the world.
What sticks out to me is that she wasn’t getting support that she desperately needed, and wasn’t in a situation where there was a “good” option. And even the “lying” afterwards is the result of there being no safe way to disclose what happened.
The whole “would you feel different in X situation?” is barking up the wrong tree.
What cases like this illustrate is not the need to have clarity over when it’s OK to have an abortion, but the need for vulnerable women to have access to support - mental health support, shelter, counselling, financial assistance, escape from violent/coercive control etc.
If we actually accept that abortion at all stages should not be a criminal offence, then we enable women considering abortion to seek support, knowing that doing so will not put them on the radar as having committed a crime if the support turns out to not be enough.
Decriminalisation of abortion at all stages does not = support of late stage abortion. It just means that we recognise that archaic laws are not fit for purpose when they have this outcome.
I'm sorry but its not every day someone wins an Internet argument but when they do it has to be recognised.Long slender neck wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 2:42 pmThe important bit.Admin wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 1:41 pmAt the risk of being accused of brown-nosing Keef, I'm not sure there needed to be any further discussion after the point above. And imprisonment is just the crowning turd on top of the whole case.CEB wrote: ↑Tue Jun 13, 2023 6:11 pm This particular case seems awful, with a woman in a scary, highly stressful situation during an unprecedented time of stress for everyone in the world.
What sticks out to me is that she wasn’t getting support that she desperately needed, and wasn’t in a situation where there was a “good” option. And even the “lying” afterwards is the result of there being no safe way to disclose what happened.
The whole “would you feel different in X situation?” is barking up the wrong tree.
What cases like this illustrate is not the need to have clarity over when it’s OK to have an abortion, but the need for vulnerable women to have access to support - mental health support, shelter, counselling, financial assistance, escape from violent/coercive control etc.
If we actually accept that abortion at all stages should not be a criminal offence, then we enable women considering abortion to seek support, knowing that doing so will not put them on the radar as having committed a crime if the support turns out to not be enough.
Decriminalisation of abortion at all stages does not = support of late stage abortion. It just means that we recognise that archaic laws are not fit for purpose when they have this outcome.
And stop lovebombing him please.
I don't know what is the right thing to do, but were she to give birth to that baby at that point it would survive, you may be able to draw a line on it saying it's in her body it's her choice, but I'm struggling to see the difference between an abortion, and giving birth to it and killing it.CEB wrote: ↑Wed Jun 14, 2023 9:19 am “ I'd say at 34 weeks it’s their baby *in* their body. Perhaps this is where we disagree.”
I don’t think that’s where we disagree - I don’t think it’s factually incorrect for you to see a foetus near full term as a baby in her body. Where we disagree is on what weight we place on that fact.
I think that that fact is a good reason that late term abortions shouldn’t be routine, should be very rare, to the point of being absolutely last resort.
I also think that women who are pregnant are very unlikely to get to that stage by just not addressing whether they want a baby until then.
Which is why it’s important to look at what actually happens in such cases. Again, Mindsweep’s post links to someone very knowledgeable on this, and it’s worth reading (and reading the material she links to)