A Bit of Domestic Violence

[Disoriented]

This woman should be banged up.

[Thor]

The police are apparently going to use the 999 call as he says she tried to kill me, and the video evidence of the police where she went mental flipped a table and had to be forecabke held down and arrested. She’s trying to save her skin by pleading not guilty, but as Spen knows the court takes into consideration an early plea of guilt and does not like it when you fail to do so.

Things just got interesting, if she loses her career is over.

[DuvB]

Patently she is a nutter with anger management issues.

Reckon she will get a suspended sentence.

[spen666]

The police are apparently going to use the 999 call as he says she tried to kill me, and the video evidence of the police where she went mental flipped a table and had to be forecabke held down and arrested. She’s trying to save her skin by pleading not guilty, but as Spen knows the court takes into consideration an early plea of guilt and does not like it when you fail to do so.

Things just got interesting, if she loses her career is over.

It's not exactly like that, but you do get a discount on sentence of up to 1/3 for an early guilty plea.


She will not go to prison is convicted or if she had plead guilty.

The sentence is almost irrelevant to her.. it's a conviction that would do most harm, not the courts punishment

If convicted it is likely to end her media career, or severely harm it. That is her concern. I would gave advised her to plead Not Guilty and hope for an acquittal. A victimless prosecution is not an easy thing to secure a conviction with.

[ComeOnYouOs]

I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported

[Thor]

I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported

I take it you got rid pretty quickly after that?

[spen666]

Spen - an observation on your behaviour over a long time is not a personal attack - I am sure others who are even remotely interested in you or my view of you - have their own view on you - it's like you emphasise playing the role of the innocent victim of persecution.

If you behave yourself going forward it won't attract any more observations statements

If you don't like my posts use the ignore function instead of ruining threads for everyone with your personal attacks.

It's not too much to ask is it?

I certainly do no need you to tell me what to do.

Its nice to know that you put your personal hatred of me (someone you do not know and haven't met) above a debate on DV and brave people like ComeOnYouOs revealingsuch a personal event in his life

If you feel the need to launch personal attacks, why not start a thread and keep your hate and abuse from derailing other threads.

[Fanny]

Spenny up to his old tricks

You’d think a grown man would have better things to do than troll on a Leyton Orient message board. On Christmas Eve of all days.

[ComeOnYouOs]

I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported

I take it you got rid pretty quickly after that?

YES

[Disoriented]

I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported

I take it you got rid pretty quickly after that?

YES

Sorry to hear that COYOs.

What type of bat was it?

[ComeOnYouOs]

I take it you got rid pretty quickly after that?

YES

Sorry to hear that COYOs.

What type of bat was it?

A regular cricket bat.nothing special of expensive. As I said it was 22 years ago, and largely forgotten. The thread reminded me of it.
Before anyone else asks , if i hit her back, the answer is no. I cant hit a woman under any circumstances , so she got away with it

[Disoriented]

YES

Sorry to hear that COYOs.

What type of bat was it?

A regular cricket bat.nothing special of expensive. As I said it was 22 years ago, and largely forgotten. The thread reminded me of it.
Before anyone else asks , if i hit her back, the answer is no. I cant hit a woman under any circumstances , so she got away with it

At least you called stumps on the relationship which is fair enough.

[Mick McQuaid]

Article 3 of what?

The European convention on Human rights.

[spen666]

Article 3 of what?

The European convention on Human rights.

Thanks

You do know the police have no duty to investigate alleged breaches of ECHR, whether article 3 or any other. There is no criminal defence of breach of Article 3 of ECHR.
It's a bit of a red herring in this debate
The ECHR doesn't create criminal offences. You couldn't for example be arrested for a breach of Article 3, but you could be arrested for assault, murder etc

[spen666]

Spen - an observation on your behaviour over a long time is not a personal attack - I am sure others who are even remotely interested in you or my view of you - have their own view on you - it's like you emphasise playing the role of the innocent victim of persecution.

If you behave yourself going forward it won't attract any more observations statements

If you don't like my posts use the ignore function instead of ruining threads for everyone with your personal attacks.

It's not too much to ask is it?

I certainly do no need you to tell me what to do.

Its nice to know that you put your personal hatred of me (someone you do not know and haven't met) above a debate on DV and brave people like ComeOnYouOs revealingsuch a personal event in his life

If you feel the need to launch personal attacks, why not start a thread and keep your hate and abuse from derailing other threads.

You - have many words of nothing - a person that posted so many times with deviation to a subject matter to attempt to convey your point - even on this thread another poster had to remind you to keep to the topic.

Maybe if you had concentrated on either law or accountancy rather than attempt both you may of been a more approachable character.

If I recall you had no comment when I pointed out you had been found out posting under two different names from the same computer and how many topics did you contaminate with your perverse weird behaviour

As for this topic I notice I have contributed a reasonable amount (in addition to dealing with you again) before the boarder revealed his ex wife had hit him over the head with the bat

You I would not want to meet assuming I could catch you speeding up the motorway another topic by you

If you are so perfect why don't you post more about lofc - assuming you actually do support lofc

Why not start a thread to post your hatred of me instead of ruining every thread with your anti me posts?

You really are only showing yourself up and destroying thread after thread

I am sure mos peopl would rather discuss DV than read your repeated diatribes that have nothing to do with the thread.


Perhaps the irony of our last sentence is lost on you.

[Max B Gold]

Mods come on get a grip here.

These two need to go.

[Redcard]

Comeonyouos, well done for not hitting her back, but I would have f*cking bowled her out.

[Fanny]

Comeonyouos, well done for not hitting her back, but I would have f*cking bowled her out.

Sent her past the boundary?

[Disoriented]

Good thing you didn’t bowl a maiden over.

[Thor]

I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported

I take it you got rid pretty quickly after that?

YES

Sorry to hear that and well done for walking away when you did. I hope you’ve found peace and happiness since.

[Ronnie Hotdogs]

I was a victim myself, a long time ago ( 1995). My ex-wife hit me over the head with a cricket bat. She hit me so hard, the blade shattered into three pieces.
Ive kept those pieces to this day. Needless to say it hurt like hell, and i had a bump on my head the size of a cricket ball.
I didnt go to the police, though with hindsight i wish i had, because violence anywhere should be reported

At least there’s been no long term damage....

[Long slender neck]

[ComeOnYouOs]

Making jokes about domestic violence maybe isn't too clever.
There's an element of sexism here too. Let me explain.
If a woman was attacked and beaten by a man, I don't think anyone would dream of making a joke about it, but if a man is attacked by a woman, somehow"it's not so bad" to make jokes?
I contributed to a thread, about an experience I had many years ago..... Had I thought anyone would deem any aspect of it amusing, I wouldn't have..... And I'm damn sure I won't in future

[spen666]

Making jokes about domestic violence maybe isn't too clever.
There's an element of sexism here too. Let me explain.
If a woman was attacked and beaten by a man, I don't think anyone would dream of making a joke about it, but if a man is attacked by a woman, somehow"it's not so bad" to make jokes?
I contributed to a thread, about an experience I had many years ago..... Had I thought anyone would deem any aspect of it amusing, I wouldn't have..... And I'm damn sure I won't in future

ComeOnYouOs

You were brave to make the post and I salute your courage.

I am sorry that idiots on here choose to be so insulting and insensitive as to joke about your situation.

They do not speak for the majority of us